Breaking Free: Don’t Wait to Be Rescued

Image of cinderella sitting on the steps with a pumpkin. Looking forlorn. Breaking free and waiting to be rescued.

Waiting to be Rescued and Other Fairy Tales

Little girls have read dozens of fairy tale stories that involve a handsome, wealthy prince rescuing a princess who’s longing for romance and passion. But some girls grow up to be women who can’t separate a fantasy from reality. To some breaking free is not even a concept or they prefer to wait to be rescued.

The truth is, a fairy tale is just that – it’s a tale. It isn’t meant to represent real life or serve as an example of a normal, healthy relationship. Regardless of this fact, many women are still waiting to be rescued. But instead of expecting a knight to ride over on a white horse and call them down from their tower, they’re hoping they meet a perfect guy who rescues them from all the problems and challenges they face.

Here’s why that will never happen:

If you aren’t Happy with your Life when you’re Single, you won’t be When you’re in a Relationship either

Women who are single and unhappy often assume that entering into a relationship will solve all their problems. This couldn’t be further from the truth. Getting a boyfriend or a husband won’t repair your relationship with your mother or make your boss like you.

You could be happy with who you are before you ever start dating someone. This would be a great foundation to start a new REALationship upon.

It isn’t Anyone else’s Job to “fix” You

It’s up to you to be the person you want to be. If you can’t make that happen on your own, nobody else will be able to do it for you. You could work hard to be all you can be. Live up to your full potential regardless of your relationship status.

The Beginnings of Breaking Free

You might meet a man who is perfect for you, but he’ll have his quirks and shortcomings just like any other human being. Your Prince Charming doesn’t have to be tall, dark, handsome, rich, or royal. He just has to treat you right and augment your own internal happiness.

It’s an idea or a belief system that you’ve wedded to, if you believe this. Rather than facing REALity, the idea of ‘settling’ has become so toxic these days, that many aren’t willing to put in a bit of work to make a REALationship with basically good bones, work. No, it’s not perfect and neither is anything in life. So why would some women expect perfection?

Relationships Take Work and Compromise

When you meet a great guy and start a relationship, it’s going to take a lot of work to maintain that relationship. You’ll have to give up things that you like, and he’ll have to do the same. Relationships are hard work, but the best ones are worth the effort.

Love is a wonderful thing, and when you meet the right person it can be magical. However, should women wait around for a man to rescue them?. May they should live full, fulfilling lives? We can work for everything and anything we want these days without feeling obligated to anyone.

Are you worried that you’re waiting to be rescued? Do you think you may have met a man that might be your Prince Charming? Or are you in the process of breaking free of limitations and constraints around relationships? Liberation is at hand!

If so, give one of our psychics a call today and check them all out here.  A phone reading can provide a lot of insight into your romantic life and what you need from a partner. What do you have to lose?

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Author: Rose Smith