Going into the bookstore the shelves are lined with tomes on how to improve your organizational skills, how to better interview for your dream job, how to dress better, cut your hair, put on your make-up, be a better parent. Basically, they are telling us we are not good enough. Not attractive enough. Smart enough….Enough!
Our self-talk – that little voice in our head which carries on a constant dialogue – can be a real bully of the schoolyard variety. It will beat us up, take our lunch money, call us nasty names. And the only way to deal with a bully, is to stand up to it. It’s time to change our internal dialogue.
It’s time to recognise some new personal truths.
Life is a game where everyone keeps score and nobody wins. You are out there doing the best you can with what you’ve got and improving every day. There’s no sense in worrying about someone else’s best, you’re not them. You focus on your personal best, consult your personal horoscope or seek a psychic reading to realign your vision of yourself, and let the rest take care of itself. Other people are not your problem.
Which leads to our next point, failure is always an option. If you’re not failing, you’re not learning anything new. And life is too short to spend failing at doing something you hate. Take a moment to make sure you are putting your energy and time into your passions, so that when you do fail, you can’t wait to jump up in and do it again and live your beautiful life.
You are the only you there is. No one can replace you or completely recreate your unique qualities. You may never have power or influence over millions, but you matter to those around you. Your impact is precious to someone – friends, family, neighbours, co-workers, the homeless guy you gave a Power Bar to on the way to work, your dog who depends on you for food, shelter, and affection. Maybe you haven’t realised your influence yet, but it is there.
You have a heartbeat, a brain, emotions. It is your decision how you choose to use or respond to them. No one ever has permission to hurt you. You did nothing to deserve it. But what you do next is up to you. There is no right or wrong answer, other than if you do find yourself in an abusive relationship, please seek professional help immediately! The main thing here is not to allow other’s opinions to shape the way you view yourself. You are fabulous! Inside and out! There is no reason for you to not begin speaking that to yourself right now.
Your future is for you to determine. Your internal dialogue is the truth you speak to and about yourself. Move forward with confidence. Our psychics at Absolute Soul Secrets, can help you find and speak your truth. Go to Our Psychic Reading Times page on our website and give them a call today!